God’s Fairytale

Let’s just say when God writes the fairy tale, it’s better than you can dream up on your own.

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Penned and painted by Sarah’s friends, this wedding sign says it all.

When David and Sarah got engaged almost a year ago, I began praying for the ability to give Sarah her dream wedding. We put a little nest egg away, but soon realized the sum was nowhere near enough. One step at a time God provided, mostly through the love and skill of others and the hard work of our daughter.

There were moments of intense stress. When a big event happens largely due to other people volunteering, you can’t be a drill Sargent. Things often came together slowly, and some fell through. During one of “those” moments, I complained to God, wishing I had more money and didn’t have to feel so helpless, so dependent on others.

I felt rather than heard His whisper, “Don’t you see what I’m doing? I’m bringing the community together to love Sarah. It’s better this way.”

I was to discover the truth of His words. Gift after gift was showered upon us giving Sarah much more than we ever could have on our own. When the big event occurred, touches of love were everywhere, reminders of dear friends each time we glimpsed the results of their labor. Such joy was much deeper than if the beauty had been created by simply throwing money at it.

Thanks to the Lord and the love of His people, Jerry and I can truly say our girl got her dreams.

I write about my BENew weight loss journey, but weight loss isn’t always physical. Sometimes we have weight that needs to go in the form of false perceptions about God, about ourselves, and about life. My husband Jerry and I are dropping pounds from a poverty mindset.

Somehow in our pursuit of God we grabbed hold of some ideas about Him that are not true. We equated holiness with little and lack. With finding good deals and not spending money.

Poverty has its place. It can lead a heart toward God as a dependence on Him is fostered through struggle. Sometimes God calls people–like Mother Teresa–to a lifestyle of poverty for a greater purpose. But doing without is not always a road to holiness or even His plan for us. Sometimes He wants us to have what we want, not just the best deal.

Jerry and I too often missed the joy and celebration parts of God’s character. While He is a God of sacrifice, He is also the Extravagant One who paints a double rainbow, designs a fuchsia flower, and puts a dollop of whipped cream on the top of mountain peaks.

joyHe is the Jesus who turned the water into wine at a friend’s wedding.

Our Lord delights in giving us good gifts and in our celebration of what He has given–like the gift of love He gave our daughter, Sarah, and our son-in-law, David, and the way we celebrated that on their wedding day.

I received an email from a friend as I fought not to freak out about wedding details. She said, “I was praying/journaling for you tonight . . . I saw this . . . open wedding with a semi-covered patio with the wood slats as the roof. Everything was beautiful for the wedding, enough ribbon, food, wine, and stamina. God will meet every need you have for this wedding, the spoken and unspoken desires of the heart. I saw that everyone was soooo happy. It is going to be a great day, take joy, my friend.”

It all came true.

When Sarah got engaged she and I each tattooed the word “delight” on a foot as a reminder that God pedi manidelights in us, and we delight in each other and in Him. This circle of delight shimmers in droplets of blessings. I’ve experienced such a thing many times, but perhaps this wedding reveals a shower of blessings unlike any other I’ve ever danced in. Sarah, too.

Please indulge me the next few days as I write about a different Benew journey–one where Jerry and I drop the weight of small expectations and grow healthier, embracing the abundance of beauty and celebration. Join us as we celebrate the union of Mr. and Mrs. David Grundy.

(A shout out to Marie at Fat Girls Slim whose blog about her son’s wedding inspired me to start writing our wedding story!)

Invite your friends to the celebration:

Dancing in droplets of Blessing!

Embracing Abundance, Losing the weight of lack

God’s fairy tales are the best!

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9 thoughts on “God’s Fairytale

  1. Marlene Bagnull May 28, 2013 at 1:11 pm Reply

    I’m praising God for all He has done and is doing.

    • Paula Moldenhauer May 28, 2013 at 3:37 pm Reply

      Thank you, Marlene! You are a wonderful example of persevering on the journey of faith and discovery of the Father’s heart!

  2. mariekeates May 28, 2013 at 4:52 pm Reply

    Your daughter looked lovely and I love the tattoo. Thanks for the mention by the way 🙂

    • Paula Moldenhauer May 28, 2013 at 5:48 pm Reply

      hey, you were my inspiration!

      • mariekeates May 28, 2013 at 7:00 pm

        Now I’m blushing 🙂

  3. Kathy Kovach May 28, 2013 at 5:31 pm Reply

    God certainly was your Wedding Planner. It was a beautiful testament to His love for your family. Jim and I were both awed by the presence of His Holy Spirit that day. Thank you for also sharing the new perspective on weight loss. I had never thought of it that way.

    • Paula Moldenhauer May 28, 2013 at 5:50 pm Reply

      Jerry’s mom is 88. She speaks mostly in short sentences now, rarely paragraphs. One of the most precious moments for us was when she told Jerry, “It is evident His Spirit is here.” Wow.

      Doing a lot of thinking about weight loss perspectives the last year. Glad this one gave you something to chew on, too.

  4. […] Yesterday I shared how stressed I was about the wedding and how God had everything under control. While I won’t share all the nitty gritty details of the struggle, I will tell you one story, only because it shows how faithful God is when He has a fairy tale dream to pull off for one of His girls. […]

  5. […] big day finally arrived! (If you want the beginning of the story read this and […]

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